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Post by mtnme on Feb 17, 2009 14:01:33 GMT -5
Hi there! I'll weigh in on this. I think he at least has noticed you. What guy even asks a woman the time of day if they're not even remotely interested? He would have just said Hi, and went about his business. The fact that he even asked about your Valentines Day sounds like a little 'probing' to me. Hey, your answer said you're 'available'. Although I probably would have answered, "I went out with some friends" instead. Hey, don't underestimate a guys need to 'chase' a bit. Or their assumptions (wrongly) that if you weren't with someone, there must be a reason. (The Real Reason: Yeah, I'm not with someone 'cause all the guys I meet are morons...wanna change my opinion?)  Guys are always expected to make the first move. You may be nervous, but what makes you think he isn't?  Someone's gotta make the first move here. If it's you, hey, you ask, and if you get turned down, ya feel like a dork for a day...and you move on. But look at it this way, at the very least, you probably made HIS day. Even if he's "not that into you", most people find it kinda flattering that someone is interested in us, even though we aren't that interested in them. (...unless he's a moron. Then you have the overwhelmingly intense desire to go home and take a shower, wondering WHY OH WHY do you attract guys like this?)  |
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Post by EnElYaK on Feb 17, 2009 18:39:22 GMT -5
Haha, mtnme...I like your answer! thanks for your input! (did you read my very first post too? lol.)
When he asked how my Valentines Day was, right after he asked me how I am, lol did make it seem that he was wanting details on if I'm taken. I was surprised and I was going to say "I didn't do anything...I was doing homework all evening" which is excatly what I did! lol...should've said all that, but...oh well. I wasn't too talkative yesterday 
I could've said something like "Yeah, I'm a "tontraditional" student so I'm surrounded by teenagers and guys who are like 3-6 years younger than I am! not gonna date a teenager! besides, I've never been asked out by those guys" lol!
(Like at work the day before V-Day one of my coworkers and I were talking about that, how everyone at college is her words: either an immature teenager or 40 year old students!" lmfao. She suggested another co-worker who's a guy of about 22 (looks 30 to me) that I could go out with. I said I'll pass...I'm 3 years older than him (she said that's not bad) but I'm not attracted to him anyways so...lmao.)
Sucked that he didn't respond when I asked "what about you?" (regarding V-Day)...I have a tendancy to talk quietly, so I'm not sure if he heard me. :S
The thing that makes this hard is that he doesn't live in the same town I do...he lives in a city about an hour and 1/2 away. He said he makes several stops in my town and also travels to a city in another state. I'm not sure if he drives home after he does his several stops. Not sure how a "date" would work unless he stays overnight (he mentioned that the last time he was here; staying overnight)
If he's really that interested he should make the first move lol! if it would work out for him, that is. Unless I get up the nerve to ask...but if he says no, he has to leave town tonight...then I'd look like a dork lol. I sure as hell would be nervous, but he never seems to be nervous around me (unless he is hiding it.)
Everytime he comes he asks me a bunch of questions, seemingly wanting to get get answers from me lol.
Samples:
1. Asked me how old I was. Told him my age and that many people think I'm 16. He said I looked 21 to him.
2. Asked what my plans are for Christmas
3. Asked if I get to his town very often
4. Asked me my first and last name
5. Put his hand on top of mine. Then apologized.
And now,
6. Asked me what I did for Valentine's Day.
Unless, he's probing me to get answers to draw up conclusions on whether he should make a move or not?! hmmm. Good lord I've been working there a year! he only started asking me question the past 3 times! sizing me up each time??!! lol. Psh, Wonder what he'll ask next.
Another thing, when my boss took him outside to talk, she always smokes when she goes outside, I was really curious to know of he was smoking too. I'm allergic to cigarette smoke so a smoker wouldn't do unless he quits. That would've been majorly obvious if I would've went and looked. Uhhh...maybe I wasn't supposed to know lol. 
And I told myself I wouldn't think about this for awhile 
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Post by EnElYaK on Feb 18, 2009 0:37:45 GMT -5
Ah crap I thought of something clever I could've said
"Yeah, I had a date *short pause, look for a reaction* with...a paper that I was writing that night."
That's woulda been good! I would've loved to see his reaction...might've been telling. I can't make up witty comments on the fly lol.
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Post by mtnme on Feb 18, 2009 0:50:18 GMT -5
Ah crap I thought of something clever I could've said "Yeah, I had a date *short pause, look for a reaction* with...a paper that I was writing that night." That's woulda been good! I would've loved to see his reaction...might've been telling. I can't make up witty comments on the fly lol. LOL, isn't that ALWAYS the way??? But I still think he's interested. Guys don't ask you diddly-squat (meaning questions) if they're not...unless they're a reporter (and even then, I'll bet they STILL don't fully listen...) |
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Post by EnElYaK on Feb 20, 2009 23:58:47 GMT -5
Me again lol...
While co-workers today were talking about what times they came in to work, got me thinking about earlier this week.
Because of the scheduling of my classes in college this semester, I only come into work after 11:00 am. Last sememster I was always at work at 9:00 am. Usually when this guys comes, from what I remember, he came between 10:30-11. Now, Monday he came in around 1:30 pm.
Now if he would've come the time he usually did, I wouldn't have been there. I Never told him my schedule. Just thought that was interesting.
Sorry, that was random...I'm such a nerd lol 
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Post by EnElYaK on Feb 25, 2009 17:16:57 GMT -5
Ok...I was just leaving work earlier and in the parking lot near by car was a company vehicle.....the company "the guy" works for...I was like  but it had a MN license plate. He don't live in MN. So I was like "he was just here over a week ago...it has MN license plates...nah, he can't be here." So I just left...wasn't going to sit in my car and be a stalker just to see for sure...lmao.
Just thought that was...weird. :S
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Post by number1fan on Feb 25, 2009 18:32:58 GMT -5
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Post by EnElYaK on Feb 25, 2009 19:19:13 GMT -5
Nah, I'm telling myself not to get my hopes up. Who knows, he could have a gf for all I know lol.
Hmmm at least I thought it was a MN license plate lol. Anyway yeah, seeing that car kinda surprised me like "what the... " very strange, odd, eerie lol. I don't know I'll just take that as a coincidence
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Post by EnElYaK on Mar 12, 2009 23:34:06 GMT -5
Well, this coming Monday it'll be a month since last time. We'll see if he shows...and what if anything, will happen...
LoL
How random, I seen this article on the MSN homepage this morning...lmao! lifestyle.msn.com/relationships/articlemcmatch.aspx?cp-documentid=18461641>1=32023
Oh, and another thing...I've been having dreams about looking at jewelry lately...not like expensive jewelry but like gemstone, and bead jewelry. I didn't mention this before, but last month I had a dream about looking at jewelry at a mall and "he" appeared in it...he was with a couple other male coworkers and we smiled and waved when we passed each other, then he went through a door into another room...some woman walked in the door behind him, but in the dream I didn't get an impression who she was. Weird lol.
Ok so I looked up what dreams about jewlry mean and found this: www.experiencefestival.com/a/Meaning_of_Dreams_about_Jewelry/id/241603
Ok, now I'm really creeped out!
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Post by EnElYaK on Mar 16, 2009 16:01:26 GMT -5
Well the report is...
There is no report! lol...maybe he only comes once every 2 months. I dunno *shrug* oh well!
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Post by number1fan on Mar 18, 2009 15:31:50 GMT -5
shucks...hope you didn't miss him because of your schedule.
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Post by EnElYaK on Mar 18, 2009 16:35:20 GMT -5
Yeah I know...but he usually comes on Mondays. Maybe like he said, he's busier than normal and couldn't make it? I don't know. Last time I overheard him say something about coming the 2nd week of every ... then I didn't hear what he said...of every month or every 2 months...not sure. I started thinking...when he started asking me questions it was in the summer sometime, then I started college in August and had every Monday off for 4 months...I didn't see him for 4 months (then again I didn't think nothing of it at all then) When the 1st semester ended I was on Christmas break and I worked on Dec. 15th --- a Monday, and he came that day. Obviously he still seemed 'interested' after 4 months' time.
Mid jan. the 2nd semester started and now my schedule allows me to work Mondays. He didn't come all of Jan. (unless I missed him) and last month he came on the 16th of Feb. (Monday) He didn't come this month at all...yet?
If he comes on Tuesdays or Thursdays I have off those days. Since it's Spring Break, I worked yesterday, but he never came either. I don't work tomorrow though. Well, if something's supposed to come out of this, it will happen. (But how long do I have to wait around? LOL patience I suppose)
But ya know, I have this weekend off work, and my Mom asked me to go shopping with her out of town (the town where he lives) this was planned over a week ago. Who knows, maybe I could run into him at the mall or something...lol probably just wishful thinking.
I'm really confused. What if this guy's already dating somebody, engaged, or married(didn't see any ring though) separated, or even divorced?! I don't have a clue! LOL. Ya never know, some guys just like to flirt with women even if they're already in a relationship. But, would a guy ask a girl if she had a nice Valentine's Day if they're currently involved with someone?!
On another note, there's like 3 new maintenance guys at work, and on my break today one of them come up to me and started talking, asking me all sorts of questions...how many hours do I work a day, how long have I worked there, do I always take breaks, how old I am etc. He's like "So how old are you? 17? 18?" I shake my head no...he goes "Younger?!" I said I'm 25 and he got this really shocked look on his face, threw his head back and said "Oh my God!" I said yeah, I look young for my age, and he said he gets that alot too lol. Then he asked how old I thought he was and I told him he looked 21 "Yeah! you got it right!" he said lol. And, this is odd, he goes"I bet you drink alot huh?" (what a dumb question I thought) and I said no, I really don't...and he said he didn't either and he likes to "work out" instead of doing drugs or drinking. I'm thinking oook, that's...good, I guess, LMAO. Then he was telling me what kinds of jobs he has to do around there, what kind of music do I listen to, questions about college cause he's thinking about going to college at a later age than normal (like I did.) Then he asked if I'm originally from here and if I graduated from the same High School he did; I told him no and he said 'Oh, so that's why I never saw you" lol. He mentioned the town he used to live in, and coincidentally, I lived there at one point too. Then he told me his name and left to get back to work lol.
Ok now, does this kid like me too? lmfao. If so, it don't go both ways The whole time I'm thinking "Ok, this is eerily familiar" lol. But I'm 4 years older than him, and he's got this sort of "punk rock" look with the baggy jeans, pierced ears etc. not my type at all. He seemed like a nice guy and everything but, this guy is not "Him."
This is all so brain-boggling...but I have to say, it's making my life a bit more interesting nowadays lmao.
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Post by EnElYaK on Mar 23, 2009 21:18:57 GMT -5
I went shopping (in the town he lives) on Saturday. Of course I didn't see him anywhere...that stuff only happens in the movies and tv or something lol.
I have no idea when he'll be coming again now, but if I see him...maybe I'll mention "yeah I was in (name of town) on March 20th" and see his reaction...lol.
But I don't know, I'm starting to think I'm nuts and maybe I should just let it go *shrug*
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Post by EnElYaK on Apr 2, 2009 19:00:16 GMT -5
Well, it's been almost 2 months since I seen him last. Lets see if he comes this coming Monday or the week after. If he don't, well then I won't know what to think, and perhaps I need to let it go *shrug* then again, the weather here has been really crappy with two snowstorms 2 weeks in a row, and more snow coming this weekend...so, who knows. On another note, it recently dawned on me on who he resembles...he looks alot like Robin Thicke (he's a singer) Robin Thicke looks like him (especially in this pic:) same hair color and cut, body type...scary!  This pic too: cache.interscope.com/images/local/500/bd80f7d6-e164-4954-9907-db8bbc2558e3.jpgI'm a nerd lol. |
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Post by EnElYaK on Apr 10, 2009 16:45:30 GMT -5
Well, well, I found out some interesting info... I overheard I disagreeistant manager telling another coworker that she has a list of products to order from (the company he works for) when he comes Monday And... she said his name... Well whaddya know, I know his name now, without even asking! lol. Or at least I think I heard his name right...I might have gotten the first letter wrong, I'm not sure...but I think I heard right LOL! How interesting...the weather supposed to be good (for once) I don't have class on Monday, so I'll be coming in to work earlier, my main boss won't be there, and the assistant manager who'll be in charge said she has a meeting at 12:30 at it'll be a long meeting...I'm thinking he'll probably come before her meeting though, since she needs to talk to him. Now, what I don't know is what time he'll be coming, and hopefully I won't be done working early in the afternoon as I have been (it's been slow at work lately) so I can catch him when he's there...if only he'd come when nobody else is around and I'm not busy at the moment But ya know, things never work out how you want it to! I guess I just have to wait and see what happens. Now, if I get a chance to talk with him, should I still ask him for his name, even if I think I know what it is? |
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