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Post by tabatha on Aug 29, 2008 18:15:19 GMT -5
Some of us are having a real bad time (if you're reading this Elle, I'm thinking about you...  ) I happen to be one of those people.  I will try not to drone on about it. Just when I think things got stable and worked out around here, I get this little bomb shell. 'We're moving' and I'm like 'here we go again' but giving me a week, that's just low. Even for them. My butt is moving into my own place. I just got sick of taking care of everyone else's problems. Can't do it anymore. And I shouldn't. At least respect my decision and stop trying to run my life. I'm gonna miss tv and internet (yes even phone) for a little while. At least until I can have it again. The worse part is giving up my little babies.  My mom says she'll take Bella for me. I have to pay for her food and stuff. I'm not the type to drop off my pet and then leave it. That's if the place doesn't allow them. I'm just mad as hell at how it all came about. I've been through this many times in my 27, soon to be 28 years. I deserve to be on my own and get myself together. Sorry to sound so whiny. If you want to vent, feel free to add to the thread. Thanks for dealing with me. I know I can be a pain.  |
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Post by A.O.Freak on Aug 29, 2008 21:26:34 GMT -5
i hope everything works out for you Tab  |
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Post by tabatha on Aug 29, 2008 22:04:15 GMT -5
Thanks AOfreak. It is hard to do, move. It just sets me into a frenzy.
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Post by number1fan on Aug 29, 2008 22:25:04 GMT -5
one weeks notice?!?!?! that just sucks  .
i'm hoping the trauma of moving stays at a minimum for you
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Post by tabatha on Aug 29, 2008 22:59:14 GMT -5
Well the only good news I really got is that Bella is going to be taken care of. I love my kitty. My car is still in the shop.  And I have to figure out what to pay who while moving. I'm trying to suck it up and get it going. And figure out the best situation. |
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Post by tabatha on Sept 1, 2008 20:45:59 GMT -5
UPDATE: I'm going to try and keep this as short as I can. I've been so stressed out my sleeping habits are out of wack, I haven't been eating like I'm supposed to, and I'm a bit mean. But I have to be. I've had my fill of people walking over me, and I know that I let them do it. Worse I call them on it.  They act like nothing has happened and try get all cozy again. Are you serious? I know it's a habit and all, but did you really think I'd let you keep this up. Don't I deserve better? If you can't accept me as who I am then fine, but you don't need to be in my life anymore. I'm cutting ties. I'm ending a long friendship with someone for that reason alone. I got back handed comments through out. Then one day I'm like, what am I doing to myself? I don't deserve it. Used to think so, but that's worn off. I'm trying to end it cleanly, but somehow I don't think it will, so I'm giving myself time to analyze it (I'm a bit too good at that) and try to explain why. Wish me luck everyone. Thanks for the advice ladies. I pm'ed a fellow fan here, and ended up realizing I should follow my own words. I'm a bit slow. And thanks for putting up with me. I can talk/type it up. My release. Okay, I'll shut up for now, promise.  |
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Post by mellie on Sept 1, 2008 22:22:39 GMT -5
Tabs, I understand what you're going through because some of my family think they can walk all over me, and I will do nothing about it. It took me a little bit to start to say no or to put them in their place, but when it did happen, boy were my family members surprised.  Now I tell them that I am comfortable with who I am, and if you don't like me...next. Tabs, you'll get through this and will get stronger because of it. |
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Post by number1fan on Sept 1, 2008 22:38:57 GMT -5
tabs...sounds like you're headed in the right direction.
remember you can always count on us here for moral support!
keep on venting when you need to...it's good for you! 
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Post by tabatha on Sept 7, 2008 18:40:51 GMT -5
I'm going to try and keep this as short as possible. People in my family seem to think money grows on trees, or that I can make it stretch, basiclly, I'm still paying other's way in life, while I get screwed over time and time again. So no net/phone for a while. I don't know when it'll get turned off. But I won't be here, so if you're wondering why, that's why. I may not have tv either. And to think, I thought moving would make things better. Sadly no, they expect me to take everyone's crap and roll over and not say anything. It has become quite clear, when I get my lousy debts paid, I'm heading out. Sick of letting myself go while others get what they want when they want it, while they treat me like crap. I hope this will be my last venting post in a while, know some of you are quite sick of it, for that I'm sorry.  |
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Post by A.O.Freak on Sept 7, 2008 22:33:21 GMT -5
aww, i hope things get better Tabatha,well miss you  |
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Post by number1fan on Sept 8, 2008 2:54:27 GMT -5
tabs....you can vent as much as you want...hang in there
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Post by mellie on Sept 8, 2008 22:52:45 GMT -5
Tabs, things are always bad or seem that way before they get better, and things will get better. Just hang in there, and vent all you want. Your friends here at GA are here for you. |
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Post by tabatha on Sept 9, 2008 6:05:01 GMT -5
thanks everyone. i may keep the phone on, don't know about the net yet though. everything has been a pain.
i'm happy to have my car back. sad how much i missed it.
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Post by tabatha on Sept 11, 2008 19:10:46 GMT -5
Things are starting to return to 'normal' for the moment. We have a few things to get taken care of. Other then that, it's okay. I hate the stress and the worries that come along with moving. It takes its toll. And my cat is mad at me, I'm afraid to let her out unless I'm with her. She's been ignoring me today...the traitor. |
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Post by mtnme on Sept 11, 2008 20:13:49 GMT -5
Things are starting to return to 'normal' for the moment. We have a few things to get taken care of. Other then that, it's okay. I hate the stress and the worries that come along with moving. It takes its toll. And my cat is mad at me, I'm afraid to let her out unless I'm with her. She's been ignoring me today...the traitor. Yes, kitties are like that, they don't like being moved or disrupted. (She'll come around when it's time to be fed! LOL) Why not try netzero for a temporary fix for your internet. Isn't it only 10 bucks a month? At least you'd be here! Hang in there Tab, this too shall pass.... |
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My mom says she'll take Bella for me. I have to pay for her food and stuff. I'm not the type to drop off my pet and then leave it. That's if the place doesn't allow them. I'm just mad as hell at how it all came about. I've been through this many times in my 27, soon to be 28 years. I deserve to be on my own and get myself together. Sorry to sound so whiny. If you want to vent, feel free to add to the thread. Thanks for dealing with me. I know I can be a pain. 
