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Post by tabatha on Aug 4, 2006 18:10:04 GMT -5
 oooh, bad day...  where do i begin... i, uh, got into it w/ my sister in law big time... smacked her, twice... long story, but she claimed i never loved my sister, the one who died. i was seein red. what's the worse thing you did when you were mad. help me out gals. hope you don't see me any differently... just human...
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Post by Cookie on Aug 4, 2006 18:57:50 GMT -5
well, when i fight with someone i hit below the belt with words. you know, say that stuff that you should really never say that will just destroy them? that's my speciality. i don't think i've ever struck anyone in the heat of the moment, though.
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Post by tabatha on Aug 4, 2006 19:00:22 GMT -5
below the belt, ya, but it's my 1st time ever... thanx bbp.
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Post by laura6 on Aug 4, 2006 19:09:03 GMT -5
well, when i fight with someone i hit below the belt with words. you know, say that stuff that you should really never say that will just destroy them? that's my speciality. i don't think i've ever struck anyone in the heat of the moment, though. I admit I do the same thing..I say terible hurtful things..as hubby once said when you go for someone you get them...although as I get older and take medication..i have learned restraint..i always felt so bad after... |
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Post by August on Aug 5, 2006 8:15:11 GMT -5
Tabbi, my sister-in-law used to get all up in stuff she has no business in too. By this I mean family issues that happened before she was even IN the family. She has since learned that since my brother and I are "closer than 19 & 20" she has zero chance of peace with him if she doesn't appease me. Ha! Anyway, don't mean to make it ALL ABOUT ME. I just wanted to say I feel ya with the in-law issue. How dare she tell you how much you loved your sister! And your sister's passed on? That's borderline now-I-gotta-cut-you words! Just ask Bernie Mac. I've been that kind of mad where you're angry to the point of out of control. It's a horrid feeling being that upset, not to mention unhealthy for you. I'm sorry it happened, and I hope things work out one way or another.
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Post by tabatha on Aug 5, 2006 11:02:15 GMT -5
thank you sooooooooo much august. i needed that. i felt so bad after. i can't describe the feeling. it was second worst to my black day yrs ago. the one thing i regret... my neice seen it. i love her so much. i would take it back. really i would. for her i'd do anything. i don't expect her to forgive me. but i want her to know i regret doing so for her sake. i'd do it again, i hate myself for it. yeah, my sister passed 4 yrs ago the oct. the woman is just nasty. it's horrid. thanks guys. it means a lot to me! *hugs* all around!
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