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Post by apolosangel8907 on Jul 26, 2006 22:59:25 GMT -5
I think it does have something to do with birthorder, but I also think when you find the right person, you will just fall for them. I mean, being the youngest, you most likely got babied and you need that same kind of attention from a guy, you also had your sisters to look up to and saw the mistakes they made so you probably didn'y make them. So I do think it has some to do with the birth order, but I also has to do with your personality and past relationships.
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Post by apolosangel8907 on Jul 26, 2006 23:01:16 GMT -5
I am the oldest
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Post by laura6 on Jul 26, 2006 23:14:10 GMT -5
I am the youngest...and a big pain in the ass..hubby is the oldest from a very chaotic family..so he is extremely controlled..I like that though
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Post by nermiina a.k.a nerka on Jul 26, 2006 23:23:15 GMT -5
its not easy being the middle child either
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Post by apolosangel8907 on Jul 26, 2006 23:23:50 GMT -5
Since I am the oldest, and have two little brothers, I can take someone who is completly needy. They have to be independent and let me have my space but also be there for me when I need them. since I had an abusive childhood, I had to learn to just deal with everything and not let emotions show, and I am still struggling to get over that.
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Post by tabatha on Jul 26, 2006 23:47:22 GMT -5
I am the youngest by far, and sort of put off my an only child, but in a good way, because I like talking about them, my siblings, that is.
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Post by Lindsey on Jul 27, 2006 9:23:34 GMT -5
I read a parts of a book called "The Birth Order Connection" a while back -- maybe you've heard of it BBP. It was vastly interesting. All the different connections really made sense... and as I looked around I could see the traits they mentioned in my friends, and especially, like you said, when it comes to other relationships. People who went "against" the birth order connection were in not-so-great relationships, while people who were compatible were doing much better (as far as I could see). I believe in it! I'm a youngest and my boyfriend is the oldest, both of us having sisters. It's worked well for years  |
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Post by sara on Jul 27, 2006 12:57:21 GMT -5
I'm the oldest, and so is my husband. Yes, we both like to run the show, but we have managed to learn the art of compromise. If you really want it to work, you do what is necessary.  |
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